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Reconnecting with Friends - The Hard Way

Computer hacking havoc reminded me to reconnect with friends

So it finally happened.  My e-mail got horrendously hacked.  The electronic rape turned these lovely autumn days into a vortex of Internet Hell.  Massive amounts of information and history were lost forever.  While it wasn't the Imperial Library of Constantinople it sure felt like it to me.  Never again will my e-mail double as a filing cabinet!

The provider's "customer care" apparently has nothing alive working there.  Spending all night long reading their "suggestions/recommendations" does not resolve the problem.  Filling out forms generates form responses from computers.  Human beings do not exist to serve humans using their services - no one is available for communications or correspondence.  There is no accountability or responsibility by the company for the wreckage wrought.

Hardware, software and electronics' firms generally have some type of human customer service.  Even if it requires a fee, all e-mail providers should also have such a service.   And because cyber crime and identity theft can ruin a person's life, or at least cause a misery infection for a long time, I believe that legislation should be introduced to prod these companies into doing the right thing.  As it is, this situation is not "sustainable", and it would also encourage improved security.

The one bright spot - although I'm sure it wasn't for all my contacts who received the criminal's e-mail - was that people contacted me that I hadn't heard from in months or years.  Friends and business associates called and wrote to let me know.  I felt terrible that they had been subjected to such a disgraceful e-mail, but it reminded me of why they had been in my contact list in the first place!  These friends, clients, business acquaintances, colleagues, and fellow volunteers are all very special, unique and talented individuals.  Sometimes we get so busy we forget to stay in touch, and I'm so proud to know, associate and/or work for them.

Autumn's softly lit afternoons will soon fly into the holidays and land in the New Year.  We should take a moment to remember and appreciate the warmth of our trusted friends and associates - and that even havoc can harbor happiness!

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Bren May 19, 2013 at 06:49 pm
I see that I meant to type "...that connect us to the past," but I accidentally typedRead More "...and connect us to the past." I think my meaning came through, though. Yes, the world does not need another national chain retail store or restaurant, which is surely what they're planning to put in there.
CP May 19, 2013 at 02:22 pm
Yes Bren, agree with you....good point.....really what it seems to come down to is money vs. theRead More good of the community and richness of traditions. And all despite the Master Plan for that site in San Mateo that seems to require an ice skating rink or similar recreational facility AT THAT SITE, and all despite the fact the Ice Chalet would like to continue operations there. The Developer has made it difficult to impossible for any ice rink to operate there (tricky it seems)....so they can get a cookie cutter retail outlet in ? .....very, very sad for the youth of the community.
Bren May 17, 2013 at 10:09 am
I think the issue is much larger than whether children will experience stress. That ice rink is aRead More local institution, dating back at least to when Fashion Island was there. It's terrible for communities to lose so many landmarks and connect us to the past.
Anita Reimann April 29, 2013 at 11:43 am
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